Its all in the mind!

After a lengthy observation I have noticed that mind power is indeed a mighty one.

How things that you take your way turn up depends petty much on the mind set with which you execute it.

For times I have been confident of some task, executing it has been easier with fairly good outcome. But whenever I have done some work with the equal amount of calibre but with a negative or low mindset the outcome has not been that good.

There are times when you are supposed to leave back something/someone and move on; it all takes up in your mind. If you choose to stick to old memories and 'think' that nothing can replace them; actually nothing comes your way to replace them. Now I can vouch for this, as I have seen this happening with people.

As for me, I have been one of those person who does not happen to attach herself with the materialistic part of life but that is compensated by my superfluous emotions for all the vital non-materialistic things in my life.

So while I have an easy time moving on from non materialistic things like money, old house or my childhood town; I have faced hard times in drifting away from friends and family. But my exposure to people who remain clung on to old memories; I knew I had to 'make up my mind'.

And to my surprise some better time with my dearest friends and family did come only after that! :)

So all the stories of people doing the seemingly impossible things and achieving great heights have one thing in common - the attitude.

Attitude is nothing but your mental state.

If one's not sure of things but tries to wear that attitude that is just self deprecating act.

So learning to train your mind is the root to all the happiness in the world! :)

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puja's blog said…

wooooohhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!
I never thought u have so much "gyan" stored in your "mind".....
it will take some time for me to digest wat is written and comprehend it..:)

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